Happy Friday 7/12/19

Happy Friday 7/12/19

Welcome Happy Day link-up, created by Krysten @ Why Girls Are Weird (one of my favorite blogs to read and follow). I have been participating in this for years but I find it as a great thing to do when you need a reminder to remain grateful and realize whats made you so happy lately. So what’s made you happy this week? Here’s mine:

1. Cleaning my apartment and trying to focus on being eco friendly
2. Good conversations with friends
3. Spending time with my pups
4. Thankful for my mom’s health and my own health
5. Music that is making me so happy
6. Snacks galore on my “lady time”
7. New Routine AM/PM-skincare, hygiene etc
8. Going to Gentle Yoga class today! (update on how I liked it)
9. The Great British Baking Show- Jo Koy’s new stand up, loving Netflix right now
10. I want Fall weather to come, its been so breezy and cool, it’s just really nice to have rainstorms that are warm and peaceful

If you come and join our little party here, be sure to tag @whygirlsareweird or go to her blog and tell her I sent ya! Use this image that shows that this is her link-up.

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Reconnecting with a childhood friend

Reconnecting with a childhood friend

Starting off I’ll give you some back story: this boy was my childhood best friend, first ever love interest and the grandson of my wonderful next door neighbors. So when I say we ‘grew up together’ we did, because because most of the time I was away with my grandparents but when he came to his grandparents then we could hang out 24/7. We were both each others first kiss. Growing up he was my person and I’d like to think I was his. That best friend who you just cant get enough of: talking, learning, being around each other and adventuring out together. I couldn’t have asked for a better childhood experience. Now I’ve grown up and moved on but he is still a VIP to me.

Recently, we reunited after a random messenger chat and a lot of “this happened and that happened” in each others lives. I didn’t know where to start and I was in shock. We just grew apart, after a few traumatic events and some drama-it just never got back to where it was. He moved to FL and I moved away and went to college. Though I never forgot our friendship, it was a new time in my life.

All I knew was that we had both been through a lot and yet it seemed so easy being back in each other’s lives. We’d had our ups and downs and it all felt natural that we snapped right back into a close knit friendship where we were against the world. And although people change constantly and grow up over a matter of years (8-10 years), sometimes it still feels the same. That’s nice to know you have “those” friends in your corner.

If you find yourself in a similar situation or trying to reconnect with someone from long ago, these are the four major tips and things I suggest:

1. We all have struggles-that we may or may not talk about

So with this one, there are a ton of things that you may not share with just anyone but that one or two closest people in your life know. Some things are so personal that they can be heavy on your soul and it feels better when you know someone gets it and feels your pain.

2. Time is irrelevant

The friend is just there through everything and will always be around no matter how much time has passed. It could be a week, 3 months or 5 years (or longer), but that person is right there when you need them on your team. Also know that if this doesn’t happen its for a reason, sometimes we grow apart and that’s okay too. Be at peace with it!

3. Friendship takes work and forgiveness

Go slow. It can be overwhelming trying to catch up and become close again after so long. And maybe it’s not weird or awkward at all but, still be patient with the other person and with yourself. Sometimes we say or do things that in the moment maybe we don’t understand from both perspectives. Take a minute, think about it and talk it over, apologize if needed and be accountable with where things went wrong.

4. You know who your people are

Don’t waste your life with the wrong crowd. You want to make sure that those around you are doing positive things in your life, understand you fully and support you when needed and don’t show any signs of use or abuse in a friendship/relationship space.

I think time can heal most wounds and although it was a great amount of time, I didn’t realize how heavy it would be. Things I had long forgot about were still affecting this other person. I had to do some inner work, apologize and more importantly forgive myself for not knowing. But the way a true soul bond friendship feels is very unique and I’m glad that I have that back again. Now we can continue a friendship as adults and once again share our lives with each other.

What do you think? Have you ever lost a true deep friendship or reunited with someone after years? What advice would you give to me or someone going through this? Leave me a comment letting me know what you thought. I felt like this was important to share and was therapeutic to get out for myself.

July Goals

July Goals

Every month I set up a few good goals to achieve and keep me going through the month. These are a few I’ve picked out to work on this month personally and to grow myself. Tell me what you’re aiming to accomplish this month?

1. Get Permit

I’ve been studying off and on for weeks using an app to learn some of the general answers to the questions. I feel good about it now that I’ve been getting lots of test questions right.

2. Keep consistent with blogging/social media

I was solid for the whole month of May and on top of it and regularly posting like a good blogger/online entrepreneur. I want to schedule some stuff out so that I don’t forget or not have content. So I’m going to create an actual plan for that set up. Also be more active on social media Fb page and Instagram.

3. Set up a VA page again of services and testimonials

I would love to help those people who need like a right hand gal for those pesky tasks done and for those who just don’t have time for admin and social media type tasks. I have done it a little in the past and would like to pick it back up.
4. Get at least 2 newsletters out this month (draft ahead of time)

Draft up a newsletter catching everyone up and create new opt in for finding and gathering new subscribers to my community. Providing  something that’s both useful and valuable is what I  need to create for others. I wanna keep my readers up to date on not only my life but my posts bi-weekly.

31 in 31

31 in 31

Wow, 31 years on this earth that’s crazy. It’s gone by in the blink of an eye. My mom has five of us all older (I’m the baby of the family) so I can’t believe that at this point we are all over thirty. In this 31st year of my life, I have come to a very big realization (with help from my husband) that I want more out of my life. I am not doing much with it and I’ve been getting away with being for lack of better words- lazy, unmotivated and not driven to further myself in any way. Truly this makes me sad when I have sat and thought about it. Motivation does not create action- Action creates motivation so I’m getting started!

How did you feel when you turned thirty? Does age matter to you at all? I’ve always felt younger than I am so that’s a strange thing. People always assume that I’m much younger than I am as well so I just don’t mind aging as much I guess. Along with my 100 in 1001 list, I am verging out to do 31 things in year 31 of my life.

Here they are:

  •  Get Permit
  • Get License
  • Go house hunting
  • Buy a house
  • Get another dog
  • Save 5-10K for savings/emergency fund (build up)
  • Plan and take a trip (maybe dream trip-Greece?)
  • Start yoga
  • Begin Yoga teacher training in October
  • Redesign Blog/New Message-Aim for goal or purpose
  • Post at least once a week for the next few months/6-12 months
  • Revamp newsletter/new opt-in
  • Get Medical and Dental Insurance and be up to date on everything
  • Anniversary trip in September, local- beach trip, mountain trip, Hood River?
  • Make a daily water goal
  • Track steps and sleep with Fitbit
  • Create and stick to daily AM/PM routines
  • Daily journaling/gratitude list
  • Post to socials once a day or few times a week
  • Have a date night twice a month
  • Start using a planner for real/to-do list daily
  • Change up my style/look
  • Stop accepting people who treat you badly
  • Be more open to sharing your life with others, in social media or otherwise
  • Keep going to the chiropractor
  • Get my blog back-end straightened out
  • Take care of dogs health and wellness (shots/teeth cleaning/weight mngmt)
  • Start and maintain a weekly cleaning schedule *share on blog*
  • Get a health checkup/dental work done
  • Transfer family pics to SD card/Print off pictures for mom, send them to her
  • Celebrate Sean’s birthday in June
  • Self-care time weekly
  • Read more books this year

I hope you’ll continue along with my journey as I document and share every week and month in my life. It’s about to get very exciting! I don’t have any birthday plans but that’s okay. I think we will just have a nice dinner at home and relax and enjoy the day. Summer is here and that’s enough for me, plus the pool opens a few days after my birthday so as long as it remains warm- that’s where I’ll be. 

So I’ d love if you left me a comment down below telling me what’s one goal you have for the next 6 months of 2019?

Be sure to follow me on social media and I’ll follow you right back (my buttons are on the right sidebar)!

Repin!

Coffee Date in May

These coffee date posts are so popular in online blogs and spaces. I really love them and I think that  Alissa Circle’s blog was one that created it or the first one that I saw. I like to read them and see what hanging out with them would be like in real life. Even if it’s just catching up on the day to day life but it’s a sweet moment to relate and be friendly in a context.

First I would say how beautiful it is outside and ask to sit in the sun. I would probably decide on Starbucks because I live right near one and it has outdoor seating.  Starbucks is nice for the atmosphere, the coziness, chairs, bright sunlight and it smells like coffee. I would highly suggest the Mango Dragonfruit refresher that’s new to them right now and if anything I’d grab a very sweet, heavy on cream iced coffee.

Second I would tell you that I’m really looking forward to living life again. Okay, without being dramatic, I was very lazy, unmotivated and purely not driven towards anything in the last few years. I AM trying to change that! I need to work on getting my permit/license. And that’s gonna be a process but I have to make myself start. Practice and just be diligent about important adult life goals and achieve them. A passion project is blogging for me that I’ve been doing for about ten years. Getting active again and into yoga is high up on my must do list as well.

Next, I’d mention that I need to be a bit better about this blog and writing space. I’ve been pretty good lately but I meant to post this week already and haven’t. I want to do my work in batches and be better about plain consistency.

I would tell you it’s been a spike of hot weather this week as well. Can anyone handle going from 55 to almost 90 in 5 days… NO THANK YOU. I love summer but a fast drastic change is hard to do. I’m looking forward to our pool opening up again because, despite all the kids around here, I think it’ll be too hot to not go in here pretty soon.

Recently I’ve had some family ups and downs (well what else is new?). I hope that I’m not the only one with drama and siblings who just don’t seem to understand you or treat you like an ACTUAL adult?!

Lastly, my new couch is a favorite of mine SERIOUSLY. And I would tell you that I am in love with the fabric, soft durable material. It’s a grey-blue color and hides a stain or doggie hair very well. We got a new bed frame and mattress too which is again very comfy. I also invested in another pair of headphones because my last pair was peeling and falling apart. But they are a good quality set and will last me for even more years. The sound quality is great too and has a good microphone in it for speaking online if I need to.

I’d walk you to your car or wherever you’re about to be, give you a BIG hug and say goodbye. But don’t worry friend, we’ll do this again soon.

Happy Friday

Hello again readers! Thanks for returning to my sweet little space here. I’ve been away for a tough month or so but I’m here back and ready and determined to continue and THRIVE! I don’t want to explain myself but I’ve bounced back and definitely want to be more present.

This is a linkup I’ve very fond of that Krysten has and helps me to remain and stay present, thankful and grateful for each and every little part of my life. The idea is to list ten good happy things that happened to you this week! If you join us or make your own Happy Friday then please include this graphic and tell her I sent ya!

1. New couch and bed on sale! Adult furniture was one of our goals and we have achieved where I wanted to be. It’s better quality and will last much longer I feel.

2. Switched from iPhone to Andriod: I am loving it! Such a change but I am happy with my choice. I picked a Samsung Note 9 and I haven’t even used most of its great capabilities yet.

3. Catching up on my DVR shows (currently at 89% full and no more room for anything else). Hoping I can clear out a lot and pair down my choices… 🙂 Here’s hoping!

4. Springtime weather has begun! Oh my goodness. It’s been gorgeous the last few days here and getting warmer which we haven’t seen or felt in 9 months. 73 feels incredible!

5. I made a Scentsy order for a LUNA pack of soap and lotion. I tried a new wax melt bar called Grapefruit Sunshine. I also won a few products and got some samples as well from this gem Sabrina a friend and representative/seller of Scentsy HERE

She is amazing, sweet, helpful and so knowledgable! Thanks for all my goodies and please check her out! She has a group on Facebook as well called “NEW Catalog – Sabrina’s SCENTsational VIP Group” so search and join us! Her lives, parties, and unboxings are great too.

6. I am a doTerra oil user and rep, I made a personal purchase when I saw this months special was a beautiful marble diffuser with a bundled oil called Citrus Bloom. I NABBED it up before it sold out. And I am glad I did because it’s now my absolute favorite. I hope they bring it on permanently. I don’t know if it is sold out or not- but if you’d like help I can help you order (I do not get paid on your purchase).

7. My dogs have been so needy lately so I’ve been trying to soak up some extra cuddles and sweet sweet moments with them to keep them chill. They have separation anxiety the more we go out and do- so I’m just giving them what they need.

8. Resigning our lease soon! We wanted to move but some BS old debt came up and we have to deal with that first so we stay here, deal with the annoyances and just make the best of it. The apartment here is great BUT the noise and community are not. Also, we live right next to the playground so that causes frustration for us. But I’m doing okay with it- kids are in school for a while longer so I’ll enjoy the quiet while I can.

I think that about wraps up the last week or two of events. Sean is going for an interview for Best Buy so please please send him good luck and positive vibes! I’m still trying to unpack and situate this apartment so that involves a lot of laundry and dishes and vacuuming continuously.

Thank you to Krysten for continuing this! Check her out at Why Girls Are Weird and share the graphic as well!

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